What Role Should Parents & Caregivers Play in the College Admissions Process?
How can parents and caregivers guide their student through the college admissions process without overstepping? Where do you draw the line between helping and hindering?
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/ JAN 27, 2023
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While the process can be stressful, it's also an exciting time to explore the many possibilities available. Prepare to be a trustworthy source of both information, guidance and support. Let them know that you’re available as a sounding board for any questions or concerns they may have. Ask insightful and probing questions that will help them.
Encourage Independence
Empower your student by encouraging them to research what type of college or university they may want to attend and have them compile a list of schools. Put the onus on them to decide what they want for their future. However, don’t be afraid to offer assistance and insight if you see them struggling.
Visit Campuses
Campus tours are an important part of the college selection process. Have your student plan their own tour with your assistance. Tours can help determine more definitively what school your student puts on the top of their list. Schools may offer more than one type of tour, i.e., walking tours, self-guided tours and open houses. A variety of tours can give you a better feel for the school from different perspectives.
Finding Their Focus
Choosing a major can prove stressful when a young person is deciding their future. If your child is struggling with this decision, encourage them to explore their hobbies and interests to see if there are career possibilities there. It encourages them to focus on what they enjoy and may open a world of options.
Staying On Track
Offer to help prepare a schedule of important dates and deadlines, but have your student fill in the blanks in terms of their progress and when tasks are completed. It’s okay to give them a gentle nudge if you see a deadline looming and feel they’re off-track.
Get Additional Help
If you are feeling overwhelmed trying to navigate the process with your student and/or have questions you can’t find answers to, reach out to their guidance or admissions counselor. One of their primary roles is to help students prepare for college, and they are a great resource.
The important thing to remember is that while you want your student to take the lead through the college admissions process, it’s also okay to offer them guidance and advice when requested so they know you’re on the same team.
